It is a fair statement to say that for most kids, learning that their parents are getting a divorce is a devastating experience. Even if they are not shocked by the news, and have been concerned that someday it could happen, they could still feel that their world has been turned upside down knowing that the stability of parenthood has been shattered. How to Create Positive Outcomes for … [Read more...] about Kids and Divorce – How To Create a Positive Outcome
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Divorce Without Children: Issues To Resolve
Not all divorces involve children. That does not mean that they are easy. There are still issues that need to be resolved in order for each spouse to move ahead with their own post-divorce plans. Issues to Resolve in a Divorce Without Children An overview of issues that must be resolved in any divorce, even ones without children include: Asset division: California is a community … [Read more...] about Divorce Without Children: Issues To Resolve
3 Common Marriage Problems That Lead To Divorce
The divorce rate in the U.S. and California continues to be high. Couples get married with high hopes and the idea of divorce belongs on another planet for them, but problems could escalate, and the topic of divorce might no longer be foreign. Here are some of the most common reasons why couples get divorced. 1. Infidelity Can Lead to Divorce Infidelity is high on the list of … [Read more...] about 3 Common Marriage Problems That Lead To Divorce
Tips for Moms Going Through Divorce
In California, courts prefer to give parents joint physical and legal custody if possible. This means the children will live an equal amount of time with both parents and the parents must consult with each other and make childcare decisions together. In reality, it is common for the children to live most of the time with one parent. This could be less disruptive to a child’s routine, … [Read more...] about Tips for Moms Going Through Divorce
Impact of an Affair on Divorce
In California, the only grounds for divorce are irreconcilable differences. Extramarital affairs are not considered relevant or factored into divorce proceedings. It does not affect the division of assets, child custody, child support, or spousal support. However, the emotional affect can be felt between each spouse and their children. Effect on the Faithful Spouse An affair does have a … [Read more...] about Impact of an Affair on Divorce
How Mediation Keeps Divorce Private
One thing divorcing couples often think about is how not to disclose their private information. If they divorce through the traditional litigation process, there is no way to do this. Every document gets filed with the court and is available for review by anyone who is interested. Court hearings are open to the public and a couple’s dirty laundry, so to speak, gets aired in open court. We often … [Read more...] about How Mediation Keeps Divorce Private
How Does Divorce Conflict Impact Children?
No matter how polite and civil a couple is to each other during a separation, the divorce proceedings can still have a negative impact on the children. If there is domestic violence involved, and the children have witnessed it, or even witnessed their parents arguing with each other, children naturally become anxious and are concerned about their own welfare. Questions Children Have … [Read more...] about How Does Divorce Conflict Impact Children?
Value of a Financial Specialist in Divorce
One of the most contentious issues in a divorce involves money. How much has there been for the family? How will it be divided so the same amount can be used to support two households instead of one? How will the assets be divided? A financial expert can answer these questions. Issues a Financial Professional Can Help Solve In Mediation or a Collaborative Divorce, the couple uses a neutral … [Read more...] about Value of a Financial Specialist in Divorce
7 Ideas for Helping You to Get Over Your Divorce
Going through a divorce is difficult. Even if you and your spouse both agree it is the best choice for you, emotional moments are never far away and grieving over the loss of your marriage is normal. If your spouse wanted the divorce and you did not, it may take longer to recover. Seeing a therapist is always helpful. Handling a divorce in a proper manner can make all the difference and how … [Read more...] about 7 Ideas for Helping You to Get Over Your Divorce
The Importance of a Child Specialist During a Divorce
Spouses who are in the process of divorce often get so caught up in their own needs that they fail to focus on their children. Bringing a child therapist or specialist can do a world of good for the entire family as they adjust to the new family dynamics of two new households. How a Child Specialist Helps During Mediation or the Collaborative Process Children have a lot of questions about … [Read more...] about The Importance of a Child Specialist During a Divorce