Can You Create a Parenting Plan in a Divorce Mediation?
It is possible to create a parenting plan during Mediation. In fact, the Mediation process allows parents to craft detailed, customized agreements covering parenting time, communication, medical decisions, childcare, romantic partners, and more. The biggest challenge can be getting both parties to the table. But once they are committed, a workable plan can usually be reached.
Using Mediation to Create a Parenting Plan
Parenting plans can be created during the Mediation process, and they can be as detailed as the you and your spouse want them to be.
Some parents prefer a very detailed parenting plan. Mediation gives them the flexibility to address not just basic scheduling, but a wide range of issues that will impact their children’s daily lives. The settlement agreement can include provisions covering medical treatment, how parents will communicate with one another, childcare arrangements, and even with whom the children can be left.
Parents can also address specific child-rearing topics. For example, you can include provisions to ensure that your children attend school regularly or set boundaries regarding the introduction of romantic partners. Mediation allows these important discussions to happen in a structured setting.
Beyond Parenting Time
While parenting time is a core part of any parenting plan, such as which days Parent A and Parent B will have the children, specific times, and exchange locations, Mediation allows you to go much further.
Details can include:
- Communication methods between parents
- Guidelines around childcare providers
- Child rearing expectations around daily routines and responsibilities
- Relocation parameters
The ability to address these details helps reduce future misunderstandings and provides you both with clarity.
The Toughest Part: Getting to the Table
Interestingly, sometimes the most difficult part of creating a parenting plan in the Mediation process is getting both parents to the table.
Once both parents are present and committed to working things out, they can typically develop a workable plan. The real challenge can arise when you and your spouse are in conflict and unwilling to engage constructively. If you are willing to participate in good faith, the Mediation will be very productive.
A Parenting Plan Is Required
If you have children, a parenting plan is required to finalize the divorce. That makes Mediation helpful in reaching an agreement that allows the case to move forward.
Contact Kim Mediation
The Kim Mediation and Law Center is located at 3710 Wilshire Blvd in Los Angeles, CA. You can make an appointment by calling 213-351-1000 or visit www.kimmediationandlaw.com
FAQs
1. Can Mediation cover more than just custody schedules?
Yes. Mediation can address communication, medical treatment, childcare, school attendance, romantic partners, and more.
2. How detailed can a parenting plan be?
It can be as detailed as the parents want, including specific exchange times and child-rearing expectations.
3. Is a parenting plan required for divorce if there are children?
Yes. If there are children, a parenting plan must be in place to finalize the divorce.
Compassion for my clients is important to me, and that’s why I’ve remained a family law practitioner for 30 years — and still love what I do. I’m keenly aware of the emotional toll divorce can have on you and your family. As you navigate the rough waters of transition, my team and I will help you find your balance. We’re here to support you in making the best decisions for your future. I’ve seen the positive results again and again when couples embrace meditation or collaborative divorce. I’d be honored to share these practices with you and set your family on a healthy path.
