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What Are the 4 Biggest Mistakes in Prenuptial Agreements?
By Lynette Kim• September 8, 2026While prenuptial agreements are a great tool in preparing for marriage, many couples make significant mistakes in how and when they create them. Some of the biggest prenup mistakes include waiting until the last minute and allowing negotiations to become adversarial. Starting early and keeping discussions collaborative gives you more time to thoughtfully address financial issues…
Why Rushing Through a Divorce Can Be a Big Mistake
By Lynette Kim• August 25, 2026A divorce may feel like something you need to finish quickly, but moving too fast will can lead to missing financial, tax, retirement, and property issues that can create costly problems later. Divorce is a major legal and financial event. When you are ready for your marriage to end, it is understandable to want to…
Is Social Security a Factor to Consider in a Divorce?
By Lynette Kim• August 18, 2026If your marriage lasted more than 10 years, Social Security benefits deserve attention during your divorce. While federal law governs eligibility and benefits, understanding the rules today helps you make informed financial decisions for the future. Why Social Security Matters in a Divorce When you are working through a divorce, your focus is usually on…
We Are Getting Divorced, Is My Inheritance Still Mine?
By Lynette Kim• August 11, 2026The question of inheritance is a major concern for anyone facing divorce. The good news is that your inheritance is separate property in divorce if you kept it separate, avoid spending it, and have records that trace the funds back to the original inheritance. Inheritances Start as Separate Property When you receive an inheritance during…
How Does Settling Out of Court Protect My Family’s Future?
By Lynette Kim• August 4, 2026Settling your divorce outside of court through divorce processes like Mediation or Collaborative Divorce helps to preserve your financial resources, reduce conflict, and create a healthier foundation for your family’s future. Divorce is more than the end of a marriage. It shapes your financial security, your relationship with your children, and how your family will…
Can Mediation Help If a Spouse Does Not Want the Divorce?
By Lynette Kim• July 27, 2026If your spouse does not want a divorce, Mediation may still be possible by addressing their fears, improving communication, and providing clear information about the divorce process. However, because Mediation requires both spouses to participate voluntarily, a complete refusal may leave filing for divorce through the court system as the only path forward. How to…
How is a Gray Divorce (50+) Different?
By Lynette Kim• July 20, 2026A gray divorce is the end of a marriage later in life, usually after age 50. These divorces may involve long-term retirement assets, spousal support concerns, and unique questions about financial security in the years ahead. Gray Divorce – A Different Stage of Life When you go through a divorce after age 50, the issues…
Can Mediation Work in a High Conflict Divorce?
By Lynette Kim• July 13, 2026Even when there is significant conflict in a divorce, Mediation can still provide a healthier and more productive path toward resolution by encouraging problem solving, reducing costs, and allowing you and your spouse to make decisions with the help of a mediator. High Conflict Does Not Mean Mediation Is Impossible If you are facing a…
Red Flags That Divorce Could Be In Your Future
By Lynette Kim• July 6, 2026Most divorces do not happen without warning signs. Issues such as financial problems, poor communication, disrespect, emotional distance, infidelity and unresolved family conflicts can signal trouble in a marriage. Recognizing these red flags early and seeking professional guidance can help address concerns before your relationship reaches a breaking point. Red Flags Do Not Suddenly Appear…
The Hidden Costs of Divorce
By Lynette Kim• June 17, 2026Divorce changes more than a relationship. It changes your financial life in ways you may not expect. Going from one household to two households to higher insurance costs, legal fees, therapy expenses, and tax changes, divorce brings financial shifts that deserve careful planning and budgeting. One Household Becomes Two One of the biggest hidden costs…
Fear: The Number One Issue in a Divorce
By Lynette Kim• June 10, 2026Fear is at the center of nearly every divorce. Financial worries, uncertainty about the future, and the shift from one household into two leave many people questioning how their life will work after the marriage ends. However, your divorce fears can be greatly diminished with productive financial conversations, budgeting, mediation, and by using neutral financial…
Why Should I Give in on Some Issues During Mediation?
By Lynette Kim• June 5, 2026Mediation moves forward when both sides stop clinging to rigid positions and begin focusing on needs, respect, and fairness. A little flexibility, compassion and generosity during divorce discussions will lead to more peace, better communication, and a healthier outcome for everyone involved. Mediation – Holding Tight to Positions Stops Progress During a Mediation, it is…
